Why Not Hope?-Embracing Possibility in Leadership


The Dreamer’s Dilemma
Facing Skepticism with Vision

The other day, I found myself discussing a bold, ambitious goal with colleagues. While I was met with polite nods, I sensed hesitation. When I asked if I needed to clarify my vision, they shared that while they appreciated the dream, they believed the realities of our situation—budget constraints, time limits, and logistical barriers—would prevent it from becoming a reality.

I listened and expressed gratitude for their feedback. However, I countered that if we let impossibilities win, we’ll never achieve anything. It’s easy to accept limitations as inevitable, but when we allow that mindset to dominate, progress halts. Dreaming big requires not just vision but also the courage to challenge reality with hope.


Meeting Others Where They Are
Small Moves, Big Impact

I know dreaming big can be daunting for others. Fear, grounded in past experiences, often holds us back from stepping into uncharted territory. I must remind myself not to judge the fears of others but to empower them. Together, we can take small steps to bring the dream closer to reality.

This idea echoes the work of my friend and thought partner Meghan Lawson, whose book, Legacy of Learning: Teaching for Lasting Impact, explores the concept of “small moves.” She shows how incremental progress can sustain dreams and turn them into dynamic action that benefits everyone.


The Power of Hope
Why Leaders Must Defy Cynicism

In a recent episode of my Principal Liner Notes Podcast, I had the pleasure of speaking with Meghan Lawson for the fourth time. As always, her insights were illuminating. This time, she shared her research on the Science of Hope, a framework that fascinated me. Meghan framed hope not as a passive emotion but as a viable tool for creating change.

Too often, leaders dismiss hope, branding it as ineffective. We’ve all heard the phrase, “Hope is not a strategy.” But when did we decide that embracing hope meant abandoning strategy? Hope can be the catalyst that ignites action. It’s the foundation we need to build dynamic, transformative strategies that work.

Just think—what if John F. Kennedy hadn’t embraced hope when he delivered his famous “We Choose to Go to the Moon” speech? Without hope, there would be no Moon landing, no template for Moonshot Thinking. The impossible only became possible because someone dared to hope and challenged others to do the same.


A Beatles Lesson in Hope
Staying True to Vision

The Beatles’ classic song “Hey Jude” offers another powerful lesson in hope. When they first recorded the song, some in the music industry said it was too long at over seven minutes. Radio stations wouldn’t play it, they warned. But John Lennon famously replied, “They will if it’s us.”

And he was right. Hey Jude went on to sell over 8 million copies after its initial release and stayed at #1 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart for nine weeks. To this day, it’s been streamed over 1.5 billion times on Spotify.

The Beatles operated with hope by trusting their vision and defying the limitations imposed by industry norms. That hope led to the creation of a timeless song that still resonates today.


The Call for Hope in Education
Leading with Vision and Possibility

As school leaders, we carry enormous responsibility. Many look to us for solutions, quick fixes, and results. The pressure to meet objectives can make it tempting to dismiss hope as impractical or naive. But I believe hope is exactly what we need.

There will always be pushback—colleagues may talk about you in the parking lot, claiming you’re chasing windmills. But there’s someone in your building who needs to hear a voice rooted in hope. Remember those who saw something in you, believed in you, and called out your potential. They didn’t see you as you were; they saw you as you could be—and that’s the power of hope.

Just as JFK’s words on a Houston day in September ignited a nation to reach the Moon, we, too, can challenge our teams to strive for the stars. Think of the teacher who believed in you and stretched your learning into unknown territory, simply because they had hope.

As Martin Luther King, Jr. shares, “We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.” Hope is lasting, enduring, and impactful. We need Hope in the marrow of our culture and the cadence of our dialogue. We need to illuminate a compass of Hope on the teachers and students we serve.

Yes, why not hope?


Four Action Steps to Build a Culture of Hope
Transforming Leadership with Vision

  1. Research the Science of Hope
    Leverage resources on hope to ground your leadership approach in actionable, evidence-based strategies that inspire change.
  2. Start with Small Moves
    Build momentum by taking small, consistent steps toward your larger vision. Focus on small wins that create a ripple effect in your organization. Meghan Lawson writes about this in her amazing book, Legacy of Learning.
  3. Lead with Vision, Not Fear
    Acknowledge the realities, but don’t let them stifle your vision. Inspire your team to look beyond limitations and into possibilities.
  4. Amplify Success Stories
    Celebrate the achievements—both big and small—of your team and students. When others see what’s possible, they’re more likely to believe in and contribute to the bigger vision. Curate those stories using a school hashtag and creating a list with either Padlet, Canva, or Wakelet.

Hope is not just a lofty ideal; it’s the engine that powers real change. Let it be the guide that drives your leadership and inspires others to dream bigger.


Enjoy The Beatles performance of “Hey Jude.”

Belonging in the Library: A Hub of Connection and Inspiration

The Library as a Space for Everyone to Feel Seen, Heard, and Valued

As most of you know, I am an unabashed fan of The Beatles. Their music is woven into the very marrow of my being, serving as a source of solace, inspiration, and action. I’ve written extensively about John, Paul, George, and Ringo in this blog and in my book, The Pepper Effect. Even in my podcast episodes, you’ll hear some nod or reference to the band that has shaped my life. I can recite popular lyrics and arcane trivia with ease. It’s more than a hobby—it’s a part of who I am.

Many in my family and close circle have gracefully put up with my unwavering devotion. From the pleasantries exchanged when I make a Beatles reference to the polite nods when I wear a Beatles tie or hum their tunes, I sense the subtle “here he goes again” energy. And yet, no matter the reaction, I remain steadfast. The Beatles changed my life, and I carry that passion into my work as an educator and leader.

Dimming the Light of Passion

In recent years, I’ve toned down my Beatles references in professional spaces. While I haven’t abandoned my collection of Beatles memorabilia in my office, I’ve grown more selective about sharing my passion. This was a conscious decision. I didn’t want to overwhelm others or make them feel as if they had to endure trivial scraps from my world of Beatlemania. Yet, in doing so, I realized that sometimes, I was dimming a part of myself.

Last year, when the final Beatles song, “Now and Then,” was released, it was a bittersweet moment. The song brought together Paul McCartney, George Harrison, Ringo Starr, and the voice and piano of John Lennon from a 1977 demo. The emotional weight of this digital reunion with bandmates no longer here hit me deeply. But when the song was released in the middle of a busy school day, I found myself alone in my excitement. I ducked into the bathroom, put my headphones in, and listened quietly on my iPhone—just me and my music.

Looking back, I see the sadness in that moment. There was no one to share it with upon initial release. No one to celebrate with me upon its first debut. I had dimmed my own light so much that I didn’t even give myself permission to invite others in. It was a small act of joy—listening to a new Beatles song—but it’s one I wish I hadn’t done alone.

Finding Belonging in the Library

Just a week later, I found myself in the Media Center. The library is, and always has been, my favorite space in any schoolhouse. As a former high school English teacher and avid reader, I find the library to be a place of refuge, community, and peace. It’s where stories live, where curiosity is nurtured, and where connections are made.

On that particular day, the video for “Now and Then” was being released, and I was eager to watch it. I was preparing to find a quiet corner to view it on my own, but I hesitated. This time, I made a different choice. The school librarian and a retired librarian volunteering at our school were working nearby. I invited them to watch the video with me.

What happened next was a beautiful moment of shared connection. These two remarkable individuals, both so gracious and supportive, joined me in watching the video. Their interest and kind words made me feel seen, valued, and understood. It was a small act, but it reminded me of the power of belonging.

That sense of belonging, of feeling included and appreciated, is at the heart of what school librarians do. They create spaces where students, staff, and even leaders like myself can feel at home. I think back to a conversation I had with Andrea Trudeau, an inspiring school librarian, on my #PrincipalLinerNotes Podcast. Andrea has built a Learning Commons where belonging is central, and that resonates deeply with me.

The Library as a Hub of Belonging

Libraries are more than just repositories of books. They are the heartbeat of the school, a hub for connection, innovation, and, most importantly, belonging. It’s where students find refuge and where ideas take flight. The library is a space for everyone.

As principals, it’s essential that we recognize the power of the library and the invaluable role of the school librarian. Whether it’s through innovation or simply helping a student find their next favorite book, librarians are collaborators in the creation of spaces where all students can belong.

A few weeks ago, I had the chance to meet with the librarian at my new school. As we coordinated our schedules, I suggested we name our meeting something memorable. After some playful banter, I had the perfect idea. “All You Need Is The Library,” I said, drawing a smile from both of us as we savored the Beatles reference. It was a simple, joyful moment—one that reminded me of the connection between passion, collaboration, and belonging.

Four Ways Principals Can Collaborate with School Librarians

  1. Host Collaborative Meetings: Make time for regular check-ins with your librarian to brainstorm ways to integrate the library into school-wide goals.
  2. Create Library-Focused Events: Partner with your librarian to host events that bring the school community together, such as family reading nights or author visits.
  3. Support Literacy Initiatives: Encourage staff and students to utilize the library for research, reading, and inquiry-based learning by promoting library programs and resources.
  4. Celebrate Successes Together: Acknowledge the work of your librarian in school communications and meetings, highlighting the critical role they play in fostering belonging and academic success.

The Value of Embracing Square One

Simplicity in Jazz:

In 1969, during the recording of his groundbreaking album In a Silent Way, Miles Davis famously told guitarist John McLaughlin to “play the guitar like you’re picking it up for the first time.” McLaughlin, renowned for his complex, intricate solos, was likely perplexed by this direction. Jazz, after all, is a swirl of notes, harmonies, and complexities—a musical enigma. But Miles was after something else, something new. He envisioned a sound that was simple yet profound, stripped down to its core. He wanted his band to create a fresh ambience, to tap into a deeper, purer musical experience.

This wasn’t just any jazz album. It was a collaborative effort with musicians who, for many of them, were playing together for the first time. Miles led them to embrace simplicity, allowing space for discovery. The result? An album that, decades later, still influences and inspires musicians worldwide. It stands as a testament to the power of stepping into something new with fresh eyes and an open heart.

Back to School:

For school leaders, the phrase “Back to School” stirs a similar mix of emotions: joy, anticipation, maybe even a little fear. It’s the beginning of something new, a reset button. For some, this is a welcome opportunity; for others, it can be daunting, especially for those stepping into a new school or leadership role. But there’s immense value in embracing these new beginnings, or what I call “Square One.”

Square One offers the chance to rewrite, renew, and refocus. Whether you’re a brand-new principal or a seasoned leader in a new building, starting over can feel like walking into a conversation where everyone else is already laughing at an inside joke. You may not yet be in on it, but there’s an opportunity to listen, connect, and contribute. Building trust, creating relationships, and setting the tone for a collaborative culture takes time and effort—but it’s well worth it.

As a turnaround principal, I’ve lived through this over and over. Every school, every new beginning, felt like standing at the edge of something vast and uncertain. But I’ve learned that there’s beauty in Square One. It’s where connection is made, where trust is earned, and where growth is inevitable if you lean into the discomfort.

Embracing Square One:

I used to dread the awkwardness of starting fresh. It felt like a weird dance where I would stumble more than glide. But with time, I realized that Square One isn’t something to fear. It’s a unique opportunity. In Square One, you get to build from the ground up, to create a vision, and invite others to join in shaping something beautiful for your school community. This is where you can set the stage for a culture of psychological safety, where teachers and staff feel seen, heard, and valued.

As leaders, we can choose to embrace Square One not as a setback, but as a launchpad. We get to set the tone for our schools, encouraging collaboration and creativity in ways that may not have been possible before. When we invite others to see their strengths, both tapped and untapped, we unleash the power of collective potential. It’s like that band Miles Davis assembled for In a Silent Way—everyone playing together for the first time, discovering new possibilities.

Leadership Moves to Embrace Square One:

  1. Assess the Current Reality: Work with a coach, mentor, or thought partner to clearly identify where your Square One stands. What are the challenges, and where are the opportunities?
  2. Connect with Your Community: Engage with your staff, students, and families. Share the vision for this new beginning and the path forward. Build excitement around what’s possible.
  3. Create a Roadmap: Develop a timeline with actionable next steps. Break down your vision into tangible goals. This will give you and your team a clear sense of direction.
  4. Reflect Regularly: Take time each day to journal and reflect on the progress being made. These reflections will guide future decisions and help keep you grounded in your purpose.
  5. Celebrate Wins: Don’t wait for the big milestones. Celebrate small wins along the way, and do it publicly. Acknowledging progress builds momentum and fosters a positive culture.

Conclusion:

Just as Miles Davis sought a deeper sound by stripping away the complexity, we, as school leaders, can find clarity and strength in the simplicity of Square One. Embracing the beginning allows us to reset, reimagine, and reframe the possibilities for our school communities. As we step into new roles or new school years, let’s lead with intention, vulnerability, and an openness to collaboration. The beauty of Square One lies not in its uncertainty, but in its promise. Like Miles and his band on In a Silent Way, we have the opportunity to create something timeless by being fully present in the moment.

Listen to Miles Davis’ In a Silent Way here.

Inspiring Leadership Symphonies in the Keys of Culture and Trust

There is a famous moment in the history of conducting with the great Leonard Bernstein where he lowers his baton and conducts the orchestra with simply his face. This beautiful moment, which I learned about years ago from a colleague through a TED Talk on leadership and the art of conducting, continues to resonate deeply with me. Itay Talgam facilitates this TED Talk by using various clips of conductors to illustrate different leadership styles. The sequence of Bernstein conducting with just his face is highlighted by Talgam as an aspirational portrait of leadership that fosters a culture of trust and empowers others.

Seeing Bernstein loosen his hold as conductor, caught up in the realm of musical expression and trusting the orchestra to deliver the beautiful nuances of a Haydn symphony, is profoundly moving. The pride and love emanating from Bernstein’s face are palpable. He still guided and responded with his expressions, but he lowered his baton to symbolically and literally exemplify the trust he had in his musicians. This shared delight illustrates an essential aspect of leadership—it’s not about creating followers, but about empowering others to lead. Bernstein shows the humility and trust that leaders must possess to elevate their teams and organizations to new heights.

Our Gig as Leaders

When coaching or advising aspiring leaders, I emphasize that our role is not to build a following. We are called to empower others, tap into their strengths, and motivate them to lead. I have seen many leaders build a cult around their leadership persona, a detrimental move that inhibits growth, breeds toxicity, and ultimately dulls any impact on the students we serve. It is vital for leaders to foster a culture of trust, surrounded by a shared and purposeful vision. This is not a one-time event but a daily commitment that must be modeled with sincerity and led with our authentic selves.

As I near my 17th year in school administration, I am learning the essence of leading with my authentic self and tuning into the gifts of those I serve. Leadership is not about titles, staged selfies, or social media analytics; it’s about recognizing the gifts in others and helping them realize their best selves. Sometimes, we have to step off the conductor’s podium and lower our baton so the orchestra can create its music. We, as leaders, must steward a culture that inspires others to lead. That’s the gig.

My Bernstein Leadership Moment

While I am nowhere near the charismatic leadership of Leonard Bernstein, I had a moment that resonated with the love and pride he felt for his orchestra. This past week, I was immersed in our School Improvement Team Retreat at Charles England Elementary School in Lexington, NC. In my new role as principal, I have been savoring every minute, returning to this district. Although my time here has been short, I truly love the community and appreciate the direction we are heading in service of our kids.

Our retreat involved hard work planning for the year ahead and crafting the next steps to build a culture of trust and inspiration. We analyzed data, built a yearly calendar, and devised a master schedule. Each day concluded with a restorative circle where we shared strengths, learning, and praises for teammates. I cherished this intense collaboration and look forward to our future steps together. I have made intentional efforts to be open, vulnerable, and honor the gifts of others on the team. We leaned into hard conversations, but we also laughed and enjoyed each other’s company. I wanted to make sure that everyone felt psychologically safe and I kept giving voice to that. Additionally, I wanted to make sure that I was honoring their respective voices, so I was intentional in the scheduling of breaks, reflection times, and collaborative activities.

On our final day, I was exhilarated to see the team and eager for another productive day of collaborative work. Arriving early, my assistant principal shared that the team was already working on polishing our school improvement plan goals from the previous day. I hurried to our planning space and found the team deeply engaged. I was amazed and inspired, tiptoeing around the room to avoid disrupting their momentum. It felt like watching a great jazz band improvising and being in the groove of the moment. Actually, my mind wandered to the moment of Bernstein conducting the Haydn symphony and letting go. This was my Bernstein moment.

Filled with inspiration, I expressed my gratitude and joy at their leadership and collaboration. It was truly a moving moment that will be embedded in my memory forever. The energy in the room was palpable. The smiles were contagious. We had reached a mountaintop together.

As leaders, we must sometimes step back and let the momentum and learning happen. By stepping aside and guiding, we create space for learning, collaboration, and progress. Having the podium and baton doesn’t mean we must conduct with a heavy hand. We invite others on the podium with us and share the joy in conducting and composing a symphony together. By inviting others to compose the symphony with us and playing to each other’s strengths, we collectively create a beautiful and lasting sound.

Building a Culture of Trust: Four Moves for School Leaders

  1. Model Authenticity: Be genuine and transparent in your actions and decisions. Your authenticity will inspire trust and encourage others to lead with their true selves.
  2. Empower Through Delegation: Trust your team with responsibilities and opportunities to lead. This not only builds their confidence but also fosters a sense of ownership and accountability.
  3. Foster Open Communication: Create an environment where open and honest communication is valued. Encourage feedback, listen actively, and act on the insights shared by your team.
  4. Celebrate Strengths: Recognize and celebrate the strengths and achievements of your team members. Highlighting their contributions builds morale and reinforces a culture of mutual respect and trust.

For further inspiration, explore the following resources:

By embracing these principles, we can create a culture of trust and empowerment that enables everyone to lead and succeed. That’s the true symphony of leadership.

Harmonizing Leadership: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome By Cultivating a Coaching Culture


Years ago, as a young enthusiast of music, I immersed myself in a biography of The Beach Boys. My love for music biographies runs deep; I cherish learning about the origins of my favorite albums. One chapter in that Beach Boys biography centered around an unreleased album meant to follow their stylistic shift “Pet Sounds” and the #1 hit single, “Good Vibrations.” Brian Wilson, the band’s leader and creative genius, was collaborating with lyricist Van Dyke Parks on an ambitious project that transcended the concept album format. Wilson envisioned it as a “teenage symphony to God,” an album poised to redefine music and tackle grand subjects such as the American Dream. My excitement turned to disappointment upon learning that Brian Wilson shelved the album, leaving only a few tracks scattered across various releases.

I was troubled by Wilson’s lack of confidence and drive to complete this masterpiece. Having heard some of these tracks, I was astounded by their beauty and poetic depth. These compositions were symphonic and grand, with luminaries like Leonard Bernstein recognizing their brilliance. Bernstein praised “Surf’s Up” as “poetic, beautiful even in its obscurity,” highlighting its complexity as emblematic of the innovative changes in pop music. I was astounded that someone like Brian Wilson who is musical genius could not complete his modern-day symphony.

Fortunately, after enduring years of personal struggles, Wilson eventually completed the album, which was warmly received and even earned a Grammy Award. The original tracks were later compiled into a Beach Boys album, also met with acclaim. Yet, I remain in awe of how such a work of pure beauty was almost lost to Wilson’s own version of Imposter Syndrome. Despite his success, Wilson didn’t feel worthy and doubted the album’s merit. His crisis of confidence nearly buried a quantum leap in musical artistry.

This reflection led me to think about leaders in various fields who face similar struggles with Imposter Syndrome. How many innovative ideas have been abandoned due to a lack of courage and the toxic effects of naysayers? I have faced my own bouts with this as a leader, letting confidence gaps stifle new ideas. A recent CNBC report revealed that 71% of CEOs admitted to battling Imposter Syndrome. The lost ideas and solutions, stunted by this struggle, resonate with Wilson’s shelved masterpiece.

According to the American Psychological Society, Imposter Syndrome is is the feeling of doubting your abilities and fearing being exposed as a fraud, even when you are competent and successful. It often involves attributing achievements to luck rather than skill. Imposter Syndrome is like a shadow that follows even the brightest stars, making them feel like they’re just pretending to shine. It’s that nagging doubt that, despite your achievements and hard work, you’re not truly deserving and might be exposed as a fraud at any moment.

Embracing Failure and Finding Strength

Recently, in deep reflection over the past year in my leadership role, I found myself fixated on my failures. Instead of extracting lessons from them, I wallowed in the losses, deeming myself a failure. These sharp feelings of self-doubt echoed the pangs of Imposter Syndrome, making past accolades feel hollow.

My wife, perceptive as ever, noticed my downward spiral and called me out. She challenged me to inventory my achievements, no matter how small. At her urging, I listed every instance where I served, supported, and made an impact. The exercise was revelatory, shifting my focus from despair to empowerment. This shift in perspective led to an epiphany: I want to help others persevere through their own Imposter Syndrome. I am determined to be a thought partner and coach, empowering others to navigate their valleys of self-doubt.

Combatting Imposter Syndrome Through Coaching

In a recent leadership webinar with Daniel Pink and Stephen M.R. Covey, an epiphany struck me. Hearing these thought leaders together—akin to Hendrix and Clapton sharing a stage—discuss their works, I found revelation. Stephen M.R. Covey has authored many pivotal books on leadership and his recent one, Trust and Inspire: How Truly Great Leaders Unleash Greatness in Others is a game-changer on shifting the paradigm on leadership. Daniel Pink has also authored many though-provoking and his most recent tome, The Power of Regret: How Looking Backward Moves Us Forward is quite compelling. Daniel Pink in the webinar stated that to be a “Trust and Inspire” leader with “Drive,” one must “nurture, guide, and coach” themselves and others. This insight underscored the importance of intentional support and coaching in overcoming self-doubt. There were so many insightful takeaways by both Stephen M.R. Covey and Daneil Pink in their webinar. I am grateful for the reflection, learning, and growth they both inspired.

Leaders need to foster a culture of coaching, where everyone feels a sense of belonging and receives nurturing guidance. In turn, leaders must foster this same culture within themselves to preserve their well-being and leadership core. Creating this intentional space fosters productivity, creativity, collaboration, and innovation. A coaching culture can deflate the potency of Imposter Syndrome, ensuring that potential masterpieces aren’t lost like Brian Wilson’s initial vision for “Smile.”

Creating a Culture of Empowered Coaching

To cultivate this culture, consider these three moves:

  1. Model Coaching for Ourselves: Create a daily inventory of positive impact. Daniel Pink suggests listing three ways we made daily progress in any endeavor. This practice reinforces self-worth and achievement. (Another takeaway from the Covey-Pink Webinar!)
  2. Seek Thought Partners: Share ideas and seek support from trusted colleagues. Thought partners can provide invaluable perspective and encouragement.
  3. Strengths-Based Inventory: Collaborate with your team to identify strengths and invite members to coach others in those areas. This differentiated support fosters a collaborative and empowered community.

As leaders, it’s crucial to give ourselves grace and recognize our accomplishments. By structuring space for coaching and seeking thought partners, we can empower ourselves and our organizations to overcome Imposter Syndrome. In doing so, we ensure that our collective potential is realized, and no masterpiece is left abandoned.


Embrace the journey, nurture your ideas, and empower others to do the same. Together, we can create a symphony of success.


Check out “Surf’s Up” by The Beach Boys to get a sense of the sheer symphonic beauty intended for the “Smile” album:

Creative Escapes: How Bold Breaks Spark Leadership Brilliance

Embrace the Wichita Train Whistle: Taking a Creative Leap for Leadership Growth

In the frenetic pace of our daily leadership roles, it’s all too easy to become ensnared in the routine, the predictable, and the safe. However, summer presents a unique opportunity to break free from these confines and embark on a journey of creativity and innovation. Just as Mike Nesmith of The Monkees did with his audacious project, “The Wichita Train Whistle Sings,” leaders today can benefit immensely from taking a radical step away from their normal gigs. Let’s delve into how this seemingly offbeat album can inspire us to break away, iterate, reflect, and ultimately grow.

The Audacious Experiment of Mike Nesmith

In 1968, Mike Nesmith, best known as a member of The Monkees, embarked on a creative odyssey that was as bold as it was unconventional. He created “The Wichita Train Whistle Sings,” an album that was a commercial failure but a personal triumph. This instrumental album, filled with orchestral renditions of Nesmith’s compositions performed by members of the 1960s studio hired guns known as The Wrecking Crew, was a radical departure from his work with The Monkees. Despite its lack of commercial success, this project was a testament to Nesmith’s willingness to explore and innovate. It was a stepping stone that likely fueled his later creative endeavors, both with The Monkees and in his solo career.

Nesmith’s willingness to take this creative risk highlights an essential truth for leaders: sometimes, stepping away from the norm can ignite the spark of innovation and courage necessary for future success.

A Personal Journey: Teaching English at Governor’s School

Reflecting on my own experience, I recall the summers I spent teaching English at Governor’s School. This was a significant departure from my regular responsibilities as an educator and administrator. Immersing myself in this unique educational environment allowed me to view teaching and leadership through a new lens. It reinvigorated my passion for education and provided fresh perspectives that I could bring back to my usual role. I was ensconced with kindred spirits who truly wanted to collaborate and innovate. I was seen and valued by my colleagues for my gifts. I felt a true sense of belonging during this innovative teaching experience. This break from routine was not just refreshing but also instrumental in my professional growth.

Why Leaders Should Take a Creative Leap

Taking a break from your regular routine to engage in something entirely different is not merely a retreat; it’s a strategic move. Here’s why:

  1. Fostering Innovation: Stepping into a new realm can break the cycle of conventional thinking, fostering a more innovative mindset.
  2. Building Resilience: Embracing the unknown and overcoming new challenges builds resilience and adaptability.
  3. Gaining Perspective: New experiences provide fresh perspectives, enabling leaders to approach their usual roles with renewed insight and creativity. Plus, we are always learning and growing and new experiences ignite that drive.

The Power of Stepping Away

Sometimes, we need a break from our usual grind to be away from ourselves and the usual people. This break is not an escape but a strategic pause. It’s a breath of fresh air that allows us to connect with new people, scenarios, and locales, ultimately making us better leaders, creators, and innovators. Leaders must take intentional steps to protect well-being and ignite creativity.

Four Action Steps for Leaders

To harness the power of stepping away and embracing the creative unknown, consider these four suggested action steps. Keep in mind that these are just suggestions. You are the captain of your journey towards more creativity and reflection. Don’t let these steps limit your creative pursuits.

  1. Create a Personal Innovation Lab: Dedicate a week to immerse yourself in a field outside your expertise. For instance, experiment with virtual reality, explore robotics, or delve into advanced culinary arts. Document your journey, challenges, and breakthroughs.
  2. Design a Community Project: Initiate a community-based project that combines your leadership skills with an entirely new setting. Whether it’s organizing a local art festival, starting an urban garden, or setting up a pop-up science fair, engage with new collaborators and diverse ideas.
  3. Embark on a Creative Retreat: Plan a retreat that focuses on creative practices. Join a writer’s workshop in a different part of the world, take a silent meditation retreat, or enroll in a week-long immersive theater experience. This intensive focus on a singular creative pursuit can lead to profound personal and professional insights.
  4. Explore AI: Plan intentional time to explore different modes of AI. Swivl has created an AI-generated reflection tool known as Mirror which is breaking new ground in a compelling and thoughtful way. AudioPen is another AI tool designed to help capture your words and reflections on a simple to use app. Magic School is a dynamic platform for educators and students that is saving time and generating creativity in a compelling way.

Conclusion

As leaders, the summer months offer a prime opportunity to step away from the ordinary and immerse ourselves in the extraordinary. Actively seek out creative pursuits this summer and use that time for learning, reflection, and growth. Channel your inner Mike Nesmith and embark on a creative venture that, while it may not yield immediate commercial success, will undoubtedly enrich your professional and personal growth. Embrace the Wichita Train Whistle philosophy: take bold, creative risks, and watch as your capacity for innovation and resilience flourishes.

Take this summer to connect with new people, explore unfamiliar locales, and dive into new scenarios. Bring back the invaluable experiences to your organization, which is lucky to have your dynamic leadership. Modeling and sharing your learning as a leader helps to build a culture of growth in your organization. That culture of growth will ignite others to take giant steps beyond their realm which only makes the organization better. What radical, creative leap will you take this summer? Dare to innovate, and let the journey transform you.

Check out a track from “The Wichita Train Whistle Sings” album:

Songs of Summer and a Daughter’s Departure


A Rare Time When I Turned Off A Beatles Song

There are sure signs of summer on the horizon. Summer resonates differently for many. For some, signs of summer lie within beach towels, vacation plans, and hurried trips to the bookstore for beach reads. For me, it’s always within the guise of music. Certain songs stand as emblems for the promise of a new season. “Blue Sky” by The Allman Brothers Band or the aptly named “Summer” by War serve as anthems for a season that brings extended time with family, road trips, and visits to the ice cream stand.

But for this unabashed Beatles fan, the true sign of summer is the “All Together Now: Top 100 Beatles Song Countdown” on Sirius XM’s The Beatles Channel. This annual broadcast event airs over Memorial Day weekend, playing nonstop, and I, of course, listen to it nonstop. I love engaging in internal debates—sometimes audible—with the song rankings. It’s a common practice and serves as my entry point into summer.

The other day, my wife and I were driving home. The Beatles Channel was playing in the background, and I was rambling on about some arcane Beatles fact, something my wife has heard probably a billion times. As I continued my Beatle bravado, “She’s Leaving Home” came on. This poignant song about a teenage runaway, beautifully sung by Paul McCartney with harmony from John Lennon, is backed by a harp and string ensemble. It’s a classic track from the “Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely Hearts Club Band” album, significant on so many levels. I even wrote a book about it.

As soon as I heard the opening notes, I promptly turned the song off.

Deb turned to me and asked why I had turned off a Beatles song. I replied, “New meaning to this song for us.” Deb immediately understood, and we both remembered the mix of joy and dread facing us.

Our daughter is heading to Spain for a college internship. She leaves in a few days. I’m turning to writing for some therapeutic reflection as I come to terms with my baby leaving the nest. I keep rationalizing—she’s smart, she’s about to turn 21, I’ve been through this with our oldest daughter living in Spain—she’s ready to conquer the world. Yet, I keep returning to memories of holding her as a baby, singing “Across the Universe” to lull her to sleep. She’s my baby, and I’m a hopeless Papa Bear.

I sadly recall the times I missed moments during her childhood. As a principal, I sometimes placed school duties before family. This particular daughter would lovingly admonish me not to read school books at home and encourage me to read fun books. It’s hard not to regret those lost moments with all three of my daughters. It’s even harder not to envision walking away from my dear daughter at the airport. But if, as a leader, you keep your family as the core priority, it’s a beautiful day. There will be moments when duty pulls at you, but those moments can never supersede precious time with loved ones. Defaulting to love, family, and care protects your well-being and ensures you can never go wrong.

I am thrilled my daughter is embarking on a new adventure in a new world. She’s excited about Spain, and I couldn’t be prouder. Though we will be separated by an ocean, I look forward to floating through the ocean of memories I have with her and to the continued moments we will share together.

Steps to Prioritize Family Time

As leaders, it’s easy to become consumed by our responsibilities. However, it’s crucial to remember that our families are our core support system. Here are some actionable steps to ensure you prioritize family time:

  1. Schedule Family Time: Just as you schedule meetings and work commitments, schedule regular family time. Block out evenings or weekends to spend with your loved ones.
  2. Be Present: When you’re with your family, be fully present. Put away your phone, close your laptop, and focus on the moment.
  3. Create Traditions: Establish family traditions, whether it’s a weekly movie night, a monthly outing, or an annual vacation. These traditions create lasting memories.
  4. Involve Your Family: Share your work challenges and successes with your family. This inclusion helps them understand your responsibilities and allows them to celebrate your achievements with you.
  5. Set Boundaries: Learn to say no to work demands that encroach on family time. Setting clear boundaries helps maintain a healthy work-life balance.

By taking these steps, you can ensure that your role as a leader does not come at the expense of your family. Prioritizing family time fosters stronger relationships and enhances your overall well-being, making you a better leader both at work and at home.


The Return of The Principal Liner Notes Podcast

Here’s a special bonus episode of “The Principal Liner Notes Podcast.” This is an instant episode in honor of the 57th Anniversary of my favorite album by The Monkees. Stay tuned for another episode to post very soon featuring a very special and inspiring guest. Podcasting is my passion and I love the conversation, connection, and growth in each episode. You can subscribe to my podcast here: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/sean-gaillard or follow on YouTube here: https://youtube.com/@seangaillard3841?si=d3ZqaoJOxmUHChAu.

Garden Party Lessons: Writing, Reflection, and Finding Your Voice

Pressing Publish

There, I had done it. I clicked the “Publish” button on my blog post draft. I could almost hear the applause in the background. The feeling of accomplishment in completing a piece of writing is a rush that emanates with satisfaction. I am not a mountain climber, but I do feel like I am perched proudly atop Mt. Everest. Writing has a grind similar to a hard workout, and once completed, there’s an exhilarating sense of achievement, a triumph over the doubts that come with sharing your ideas with the world.

I write for many reasons. First and foremost, I simply love it. I love the process and the connection it fosters with others. Leadership can be a lonely endeavor, and writing for me is a gateway to individual reflection, propelling me toward deeper connections. I want my words to resonate with kindred spirits. It can be challenging for leaders like me to find such connections, so I strive to maintain outreach, always seeking opportunities for connection, collaboration, and growth.

Lately, that connection through content creation has slowed due to a recent health scare. As a result, my nerve endings are a little more sensitive. However, I am back to a good place with my health and am channeling my reflections from that time into my content creation.

I hope that my gradual return to content creation will be welcomed with open arms by those who have followed me. I envisioned being victoriously held aloft by others in my professional learning network.

Well, none of those daydreams became realities. Consequently, I found myself in a brief space of doubt. Imposter Syndrome reared its ugly head and invited me to dance. I entertained the idea of taking down my content, feeling as though my blog posts and podcasts were adrift in an echo chamber of unacceptance. I believed my words had value and meaning, but the lack of likes and retweets made me feel less valuable as a writer and podcaster. I fell into the comparison trap, measuring my worth based on social media metrics.

This wasn’t the first time I had tasted this despair. Since my health scare, I have been feeling things more deeply. I was ready to fade into the shadows. Then, I got a timely reminder from a song and my favorite human.

Two Important Questions

My wife, Deborah, always reads me at the right time. She saw something I had posted hinting that I was going to withdraw from creating content. Deb simply asked me two questions:

“Why do you write?”
“Who’s your audience?”

My response was that I write to express myself and connect with others. As for my audience, there is no specific target because I write primarily for myself. Now, I am simplifying a complex conversation for the purposes of this blog, but her questions really hit home. Essentially, it doesn’t matter who likes, retweets, or shares if my purpose in writing is for myself. If my words connect with others, then that’s a beautiful bonus for which I am honored and grateful. If they don’t, that’s okay because I am doing something to fill my soul.

Deb’s words carried me to thinking about that classic song by Rick Nelson, “Garden Party.” The song tells the true story of Nelson playing a 1950s Rock & Roll Revival Concert at Madison Square Garden circa 1971. Nelson had changed considerably since his heyday as a 1950s television and Rock idol. He showed up with long hair, bell bottoms, and a purple velvet shirt. His set included recent songs from The Rolling Stones and Bob Dylan. The audience did not take kindly to this new version of Rick Nelson, a far cry from the teenage idol they had grown up with. There were reports of Nelson being booed off the stage.

Regardless, Rick Nelson took the elements of this episode of failure and transformed it into a Top Ten hit in 1972. “Garden Party” became the signature song of Rick Nelson’s career. In the song, Nelson reflects on the lessons learned from the audience’s rejection and sums it up beautifully: “But, it’s alright now, I learned my lesson well/You can’t please everyone, so you got to please yourself.”

A timely connection for me and anyone struggling to find their footing in the space of content creation. I have to remember that writing is my outlet. If others gather meaning from it, then all the more reason to continue. It’s important to maintain the truth in our expression. Rick Nelson did not compromise his artistic principles, and neither should I. It’s important that I should continue to write from my heart and keep at the process. I simply enjoy it. Creating content in the written word and digital production is an essential outlet to do what I want to do.

Deb’s words of wisdom and the lyrics from “Garden Party” lifted me to a new level of confidence in my expression.

3 Moves for Content Creation Confidence

In the journey of content creation, maintaining confidence is crucial. Here are three steps to help you stay confident:

  1. Remember Your ‘Why’: Always keep in mind why you started creating content in the first place. Whether it’s to express yourself, connect with others, or simply because you love it, your reason is valid and important.
  2. Focus on Authenticity: Stay true to your voice and message. Authenticity resonates more deeply than chasing trends or likes. When you are genuine, your content will find its audience.
  3. Celebrate Small Wins: Acknowledge and celebrate each step of your journey, whether it’s finishing a draft, receiving positive feedback, or simply pressing ‘publish.’ These small victories build your confidence over time.

Your content matters because you matter. Embrace your unique voice and share it with the world, knowing that your words have the power to inspire, connect, and uplift others. Keep writing, keep sharing, and keep believing in yourself. I believe in you and the world needs your voice.

Crafting Masterpieces with Love and Energy: Leadership Lessons from “Pet Sounds”

As the seasons change, I find myself drawn to celebrate an album that holds a special place in my heart—one of my all-time favorites. I have a deep appreciation for the historic moments marked by the arrival of great works of art. As I write, “Pet Sounds” by The Beach Boys plays joyously in the background. Today marks the 58th anniversary of its release. Although the album debuted four years before I was born, it profoundly impacted my life and continues to resonate with me.

“Pet Sounds” is deeply embedded in my musical soul. It is widely regarded as a masterpiece, often mentioned alongside the monumental works of Beethoven and The Beatles. When we discuss what constitutes a masterpiece, we frequently refer to Beethoven’s 9th Symphony or The Beatles’ “Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely Hearts Club Band.” “Pet Sounds” undoubtedly belongs in this illustrious company.

Brian Wilson, the visionary composer and producer behind The Beach Boys, elevated 1960s pop music to symphonic heights. Collaborating with lyricist Tony Asher and bandmate Mike Love, Wilson crafted a concept album that transcended the band’s earlier surf and car-themed hits. More than a million records sold, and 58 years later, “Pet Sounds” remains a lushly orchestrated album, showcasing The Beach Boys’ genius harmonies and backed by the legendary session musicians of The Wrecking Crew.

Members of The Beatles and their producer, George Martin, have often cited “Pet Sounds” as a crucial influence on their own work, particularly the “Sgt. Pepper” album. Paul McCartney has repeatedly called it the greatest album ever made. It consistently ranks high on lists of the greatest albums of all time; in 2020, Rolling Stone magazine placed it at #2 on their “500 Greatest Albums of All Time.”

To me, “Pet Sounds” symbolizes creative courage. It reminds us that we all have the potential to create something extraordinary. We may not possess Brian Wilson’s musical genius or Frida Kahlo’s visual artistry, but I believe we all have a spark to create something timeless and impactful. Anything we create that positively influences someone is, in my view, a masterpiece.

On Brian Wilson’s social media, there’s a clip celebrating the release of “Pet Sounds.” In it, Wilson reflects on the album’s enduring beauty and impact:

“Well, the reason why I think ‘Pet Sounds’ did so well is that we put a lot of love into it… love and energy… It was a combination of good energy and good love.”

Love and energy. These simple elements, according to Wilson, are the foundation of his masterpiece’s creation and longevity. Is it really that simple? Evidently so, if we listen to Brian Wilson.

I believe we should all aspire to create something that can be deemed a masterpiece. For leaders, adopting a masterpiece mindset is an aspiration that resonates with the “better angels” of any organization, team, school, district, classroom, or department. When we infuse love and energy into our endeavors, we create masterpieces. Small actions and efforts weave together to form a tapestry of greatness.

We have the opportunity to act with love and energy. That’s the leadership lesson of “Pet Sounds.” Lead and inspire others with love, energy, and purpose. When you do that, you create a masterpiece like “Pet Sounds.”

Taking time to pause and reflect is essential for leaders. Placing love and energy at the heart of our actions can transform and leave a lasting legacy, much like a masterpiece.